Last Monday my most wonderful Grandpa went in for a fairly routine triple-bypass surgery. I had planned to go the weekend prior to visit with him before his surgery. A few days before I was to head to Missouri he called and asked me to stay home because there was snow in the forecast and he didn't want to be worried about Bella and I driving 3 hours to see him. He assured me that he would be fine and to come and see him in a few weeks.
The surgery went as planned and he was sitting up, eating, and acting like his usual ornery self. My Grandma left him at the hospital ICU Wednesday night after he told her to go home and get some rest. (she wanted to spend the night but he encouraged her to go home and come back in the morning)
At 12:30 the hospital ICU called and gave my Grandma the news.....Grandpa had stopped breathing and they had to resuscitate him. After many tests they determined that his heart was fine but he may have irreversible brain trauma from lack of oxygen. Five days have passed since we received the news. We are truly devastated and despite many prayers I find myself being angry and confused. The doctors were honest with us and have been telling us to prepare for the worst.
Today the doctors gave us the news that there had been a very small improvement. He wants us to wait a few more days and run more tests to see if there are any more positive changes.
So I ask you my friends to PRAY PRAY PRAY! HE needs them and WE need them. I also ask that you pray for my sweet Grandma. They have been married for 52 years! Her heart is breaking and mine is breaking for her. It truly reminds us that life is short, we are not in control, and that we need to trust in the Lord even when it seems hard.
We are not ready to let go of this man! Some of my most favorite memories are with my grandpa! He taught me how to fish, took me to some of my favorite fishing spots, shared his love of ice-cream, and picked on me like no other. I love this man and I am not ready to say goodbye. Please PRAY!
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Those blue eyes of his are magical, Bella and I were lucky enough to get our blue eyes from him!
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As I reflect on the last week and the days ahead of us, I can't help but encourage you all to squeeze your people, say I love you all the time, make time for one-another, and to always kiss each other goodnight. Life is short.....hold on to it while you can.
With Love xoxo~
Darby